I think it's time for all of us to realize the wtbs is a powerhouse of cruelty. They will take your family hostage and threaten you. They will try to ruin you and they would kill you if they could. They will continue to do these things as long as people give them the power to do so.
When they try to get "converts" they use certain tactics like the only way you can save your family from armageddon is to become a witness even if your family objects don't go to church with them or celebrate holidays with them this will only encourage them to think your not serious. Now turn the tables if you stay in the org and you don't believe it is truth or you think you can save your family members you are really only encouraging your families hopes that you will return and you are giving them power just by your being there.
It is very painful what they are doing and the longer they continue the more people get hurt and even die. They will one day fall but if everyone who believes it is wrong walks out the door no matter the sacrifice their end will be sooner than later.
Everyone of course must make their own decision but when people in the cong. see you there they feel stronger in their beliefs. The song universal soldier deals with this topic and even the wtbs talks about community responsibility when questioned about all the innocent deaths at armageddon.